I found a piece through my article referral gadget that talked about lesbians liking gay male porn but still being attracted to the same sex. I have not read it yet unfortunately.
Having straight guys hit on you isn't all it's cracked up to be.
First off, most straight guys have no real finesse. "Hey, you wanna have sex" is considered a romantic come-on.
Second, many seem to feel they can't justify having sex with a guy unless they're totally wasted - or at least pretending to be so. So, there's this ritual where you have to hang out doing something dull while they get drunk/high/whatever, and of course the all-pervasive smells that accompany it afterwards.
And finally, there's the insecurity afterwards - a need to re-affirm "manhood" through uber-manly activities.
Overall, it's more effort than it's worth.
... and I'm sort-of kidding, and sort-of not. For some reason, I seem to attract "straight" guys (I'm not really masculine, but I'm not effeminate either, so I guess I'm "safe" for people who are curious). And it is, usually, more complicated than just sex, even when it's just sex. Your mileage may vary, of course.
Funny, my female friend love gay guys as much as you love straight guys.
ReplyDeleteI found a piece through my article referral gadget that talked about lesbians liking gay male porn but still being attracted to the same sex. I have not read it yet unfortunately.
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ReplyDeleteHaving straight guys hit on you isn't all it's cracked up to be.
ReplyDeleteFirst off, most straight guys have no real finesse. "Hey, you wanna have sex" is considered a romantic come-on.
Second, many seem to feel they can't justify having sex with a guy unless they're totally wasted - or at least pretending to be so. So, there's this ritual where you have to hang out doing something dull while they get drunk/high/whatever, and of course the all-pervasive smells that accompany it afterwards.
And finally, there's the insecurity afterwards - a need to re-affirm "manhood" through uber-manly activities.
Overall, it's more effort than it's worth.
... and I'm sort-of kidding, and sort-of not. For some reason, I seem to attract "straight" guys (I'm not really masculine, but I'm not effeminate either, so I guess I'm "safe" for people who are curious). And it is, usually, more complicated than just sex, even when it's just sex. Your mileage may vary, of course.